To know the kind of man or woman you are dealing with .
The truth about relationships revealed.
The truth about relationships revealed.
Many people have asked me how they will know the right person for them, how will they know whether he/she loves them, I have seen and read uncountable articles on that which I disagreed with the writer for some reasons.
Men and women's characters varies and interweaving that you can not say it is this or that. Some will tell you to avoid a talkative person or those who are always right etc but without you knowing that the person will be the one that will make a peaceful home for you. bear it in mind that a person behaves somehow does not mean that he/she will not make a better home but, those people that claims that they are better,behaves better, looks innocent will be the one that will frustrates your life if you have anything to do with them.That is what we called personility trait that need to be explained very well when writing an article on how to find a good man or woman. I have wrote on it before titled" RELATIONSHIP TIPS" but I want to throw more light on it .
What do I mean by personality trait. Personality is what defines who you are , how good or bad you are and your capacity and it is a person's consistent way of thinking and acting which is relatively stable . If it is necessary to check our ability when we want to enter into university, if it is necessary to examine us when we want to work or enter any force work whether by personal assessment or interview or by introspection, it is also very vital to checkmate and probe the person you want to be in relationship with because it might lead to marriage. Stop rushing the whole thing because he is handsome or have money or because she is beautiful or have money too. Take everything infective and don't be in a Harry.
You can't offer what you don't have. It is true we said love changes many things but It is to an extent . Don't go into relationships with an assumption. It is good to know and discover the personality trait of an individual before embarking on it. Friendship leads to relationship, relationship reads to courtship and courtship leads to marriage. This is a process to know and probes the behaviour of an individual. Don't jump protocols.
Some people complained that he/she does not love me any more or reduce the love he/she offer to me without knowing the reason or what prompted it. This is part of personality development. At this points of development he/she does not meet up to the persons norms again and couldn't adapt to it and that results to problem or conflict . So don't say that the person love you so much because of that you start messing up, behaving anyhow, talking somehow, doing what you like and feeling reluctant. You need to upgrade the love you have for him/her because when you do so nothing will influence him/her to be tired of you. Remember involving immorality/ fornication in it is the biggest mistake you will definitely make in life. The easiest way to win his/her heart is not by giving him/her sex but by comprehend the fact about their personality triats and discover where he/she fall. So Never present sex from the beginning. Even if he/she is interested, he/she will run away from you. Every Man/woman cherish a man who wants to build a healthy relationship than pressure for sex.
Finally on this !!!
We have psychopathy or personality defect, arising or people displaying in relationships incompetence, incapacitated and dysfunction where severely people suffered or maltreated in the hands of people that made them to develop phobia and lead them to have hostile feelings towards man/woman when it comes to relationship. Some sees it as killer. To the other side of this and observers, many of the acts could be seen as heinous and the actors as callous , so there is every tendency to seem or view extreme deviance on an individual. This stimulate defecacy and inability to have a good relationship among them. Know who you are dealing with and know whether you can condone him/her. We still have many but let me stop here. Knowing all this things will help you to find a right person for your life.
We have psychopathy or personality defect, arising or people displaying in relationships incompetence, incapacitated and dysfunction where severely people suffered or maltreated in the hands of people that made them to develop phobia and lead them to have hostile feelings towards man/woman when it comes to relationship. Some sees it as killer. To the other side of this and observers, many of the acts could be seen as heinous and the actors as callous , so there is every tendency to seem or view extreme deviance on an individual. This stimulate defecacy and inability to have a good relationship among them. Know who you are dealing with and know whether you can condone him/her. We still have many but let me stop here. Knowing all this things will help you to find a right person for your life.
