The ideology that says,an unmarried woman who is between the age of 30-40 years old,and she in need of child(ren),she should HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX,GET PREGNANT AND HAVE CHILD(REN) or USE A SPERM BANK (insemination),as long as you have the money to take care of the child.This concept/ideology is totally erroneous,unscriptural and shouldnt be heard among believers!
The big question is,what is the SOLE PURPOSE OF LIFE? Is it REALLY FOR PROCREATION? SELAH.Yes,procreation is part of life,but NOT THE MAIN ESSENCE OF LIFE. Its just an addition,not the core. The main essence of life is to LIVE TO FULFIL PURPOSE>what God has ordained you to come and do on earth. After you have left this world,it is what you have done (purpose),that keeps speaking for/against you.WHAT YOU DO IN LIFE OUT LIVES YOU!
The bible says,the wife(woman) was created for the man (husband)>1corin11:9.Hence as a single woman who is up to the age of getting married, and husband are not forth coming,it means the person you are created for is yet to locate you. Marital delays are SPIRITUALLY or PHYSICALLY inclined/induced.
Spiritually inclined reasons are: Lack of proper knowledge of who you are INCHRIST,and your authority/heritage INCHRIST.
Physcially inclined reasons are:attitude/character problems, bad manners,body odour, temperamental,sexual indiscipline,indecent dressing etc.
Spiritually inclined reasons are: Lack of proper knowledge of who you are INCHRIST,and your authority/heritage INCHRIST.
Physcially inclined reasons are:attitude/character problems, bad manners,body odour, temperamental,sexual indiscipline,indecent dressing etc.
ADVICE:
As an unmarried woman who is up to 30-40 years,and you want to have a child,ADOPTION IS MORE BETTER/PREFERABLE,than having UNPROTECTED SEX,GETTING PREGNANT AND HAVING KIDS,just because you can take care of the child(ren). That is not God's standard of starting a family/pocreation! Neither is insemination(sperm bank) God's standard.Infact the idea of insemination/sperm bank is very dangerous, because some of those sperms are not from godly source. Hence planting such sperm into your body,to deliver as a child will rather cause you more pain than happiness when the child is born, because every child must manifest according to their paternity.
As an unmarried woman who is up to 30-40 years,and you want to have a child,ADOPTION IS MORE BETTER/PREFERABLE,than having UNPROTECTED SEX,GETTING PREGNANT AND HAVING KIDS,just because you can take care of the child(ren). That is not God's standard of starting a family/pocreation! Neither is insemination(sperm bank) God's standard.Infact the idea of insemination/sperm bank is very dangerous, because some of those sperms are not from godly source. Hence planting such sperm into your body,to deliver as a child will rather cause you more pain than happiness when the child is born, because every child must manifest according to their paternity.
N/B:
While waiting for a husband, make sure you are free from both spiritual and physical attributes that causes marital delays. And,
*Get busy with your life,and never remain idle,because men get more attracted to ladies who are busy fulfilling destiny/purpose*
*Keep working on yourself & dreams/aspiration,and your husband will find you*
*Just because husband is not forh coming,and you want your own biological child(ren),simply because you have the resources to take care of a child(den),doesn't mean you should have unprotected sex,get pregnant and have child(ren)*
While waiting for a husband, make sure you are free from both spiritual and physical attributes that causes marital delays. And,
*Get busy with your life,and never remain idle,because men get more attracted to ladies who are busy fulfilling destiny/purpose*
*Keep working on yourself & dreams/aspiration,and your husband will find you*
*Just because husband is not forh coming,and you want your own biological child(ren),simply because you have the resources to take care of a child(den),doesn't mean you should have unprotected sex,get pregnant and have child(ren)*